Sasha: "Totally. Like, I saw this girl today that I think I would have let her get, like, an augmentation. (How fucking gracious of you, Queen Dictator Sasha.) She had little bitty boobs (I thought lesbianism was eeeeevil, why were you looking at her boobs?) and I thought, like, she'd probably like a little more, you know?" (Maybe she doesn't really care. Did you ASK her?)
As someone with an almost non-existent tit-area, I would personally like to meet this Sasha and beat her head in with my cat. It's exactly that attitude that gives people like me our low self esteem and insecurities that make us hate ourselves and think that we're less than worthy of attention and affection. If I ever get to visit you with your roommates around, please remind me to bring tools to remove the sticks they've shoved up their asses.
As for the cleaning? Well, you know how anal retentive I can get about cleaning, since I've told you. However, I live with a man (my husband) and if things still work out, I will be living with a college student who tends to let things clutter up, including dishes. I'm not stupid enough to assume that either of them will automatically clean unless asked. They're not overly concerned about clutter and mess the way I am (as in I can't think straight if something needs to be cleaned) and therefore, I know that either I have to clean things myself or I have to ask them to help me. And if they put it off, then I have to start cleaning things myself and let the guilt sink in that I've become their maid without pay and tell them that they either help me clean or something that may look unimportant to me but may be important to them will wind up in the trash. It's not that hard to ask someone to help clean...your roommates should learn to ask...not expect.
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Date: 2005-02-02 09:06 pm (UTC)As someone with an almost non-existent tit-area, I would personally like to meet this Sasha and beat her head in with my cat. It's exactly that attitude that gives people like me our low self esteem and insecurities that make us hate ourselves and think that we're less than worthy of attention and affection. If I ever get to visit you with your roommates around, please remind me to bring tools to remove the sticks they've shoved up their asses.
As for the cleaning? Well, you know how anal retentive I can get about cleaning, since I've told you. However, I live with a man (my husband) and if things still work out, I will be living with a college student who tends to let things clutter up, including dishes. I'm not stupid enough to assume that either of them will automatically clean unless asked. They're not overly concerned about clutter and mess the way I am (as in I can't think straight if something needs to be cleaned) and therefore, I know that either I have to clean things myself or I have to ask them to help me. And if they put it off, then I have to start cleaning things myself and let the guilt sink in that I've become their maid without pay and tell them that they either help me clean or something that may look unimportant to me but may be important to them will wind up in the trash. It's not that hard to ask someone to help clean...your roommates should learn to ask...not expect.